Keeping a man is today's discussion.
We've covered where to go find one. Once you are dating here is my advice:
If you are anything like me, it takes a lot of man to take me on. I spend more time at the spa and Lilly Pulitzer than I do doing dishes, laundry, making beds, and doing house work combined. I'm not kidding. Sorry, if you hate me but I'm being honest as a few of my darling friends in blog land are single and I need to marry them off so they can come play with me. I also spend a lot of money on said hobbies. So not "any" man is going to be up for that challenge. (btw I go to the spa so much as SC has acute stage anxiety and refuses to take meds.) So unless you have a huge trust fund or a high paying job, he wants to decide if you are worth manning up for. If he doesn't call, he either:
#1 can't handle it
#2 is married
#3 is in the middle of a law suit (or some other stressful thing)
Don't call him. Don't text him. Don't fb/tweet/email him. Whatever it is--don't. Dating is not about playing games. But, you have to give him the freedom to decide if he is up to the challenge. I'm not saying never call or email. Just don't do it after 1st date. Until you've established that this man is your boyfriend get busy, and when you are with him be fun to be around. Moody ladies are much worse than crazy ones.
Collars up!
