Hello to all of you cute preppy peeps. I hope you are all having a fab Friday. I love the weekend. My anniversary is days away and I'm still on the 1st date.
More thoughts on finding and keeping love.
I'm so honored to receive questions from you all, even private ones so keep them coming. I'll answer all of them!
Firstly I'd like to say Hollywood gives us a jaded view of what it is like to fall in love and be married. It's just entertainment, remember that.
Men cannot read your mind, No they don't just "know" what you want or what makes you happy. Tell them, in a polite direct way.
You do not have to have a body like a model. When surveyed men mostly notice a pretty face, soft hair and boobies (hehehehe).
When Husband was my boyfriend and mis behaved (a.k.a did not call me one day), I "suddenly" had a last minute girls weekend skiing in Stratton or my voicemail stopped working. Again, it isn't about playing games-but you have to keep them in line, so to speak.
After reading the book, "The Rules," I was engaged in 6 months. But, I already had a very serious committed relationship.
I knew Husband was in love with me when the following occurred. I was dead asleep, and the phone rings. Husband, attending a bachelor party, was on the other line. "I'm F-d!" Me, "Are you ok?" "Yes, but I'm F-d!" Me, "Why?" Husband, "Cause I'm surrounded by strippers, and all I can think about is YOU!" I knew right then and there, he loved me. He did not have to say it, but I knew Husband loved me as much as I loved him.
Please note, I'm not perfect. Neither is my marriage. We've been to marital counseling. This is just my perspective. I'm also not judgmental. So if you sleep with him on the 1st date, or stalk him--call me we'll work through it.
Me in Lilly Pulitzer by my pink tree!