Thursday, November 12, 2009

Preppy Guest Blogger

I have a total healthy blog (and now twitter and face book) love affair with Entertaining Mom-click here to read her blog preppy
What I love most is how real she is! Not only is she stylish but also down to earth. So I had to have her back for more Q & A:


You've traveled and had an extremely interesting life. Now that you are a mother, what would you want your children to repeat?

"Thanks to my grandparents I have been able to travel much of Europe. I summered in Cannes yearly (after I attended camp in the Adirondack Mountains) until I was 12 when my grandparents moved to Oxfordshire in the UK. My summers in France are still so colorful and vivid. I am truly privileged. When I was older I had the opportunity to study over there as well. I nearly went to Miss Porter’s School but chose instead to study in Oxford to be near my grandparents. Those were some very tough years. I attended a highly sought after boarding school where members of the royal family were educated as well as some from the Guinness family. But truth be told, I was miserable. I was sad and homesick and too young (mentally) to be so far from my friends and family. I really call those my sad years. I would have done those very differently. But I still was opportune enough to travel and spent many wonderful, cherished moments with my grandparents. And, how many Americans (British even) can say they have used the Queen’s Loo? Yes, you read that right! My grandparents were members of the All England Lawn and Tennis Club (Wimbledon) and we would often go for lunch on the weekends. Due to my grandmother’s wheelchair, she was privy to the Queen’s Loo. And I was too!


My children lead very, very different lives. I was an only child to two very successful parents in Manhattan. I had Nannies from France. By contrast, I live in the burbs with three kids and have no nanny. I do it all myself. I wouldn’t change a thing. While I saw much of Europe I have seen very little of my own country. (I hadn’t been to Disney until I was 40!) My children will absolutely go to Europe, but in due time. There are three and the cost of travel (to Europe) for a large family is quite prohibitive.  Our youngest is just 4, and much to young to travel abroad expensively without relatives there to host us. We’ll explore our country while they are young and let them see the world when they get a bit older. I’m not giving them the same experiences, just providing different and yet experiences that are equally as meaningful."


When you are decorating your home...what are you going for?


"Ugh… We have been in our new home for a year. It is a very slow going process for us… My home is (will be when completed!) a reflection of me. I want a home that is both elegant and casual, formal and comfortable.

We moved into a large house (I would have chosen something a little smaller in retrospect!) about a year ago. The first thing we did was to completely overhaul the living room and dining room. They were terrible… hideous!!! We had red and green plaid walls (with bunting) all over our dining room. Now, I do love a nice plaid, but this was just wrong, wrong, wrong! The living room had terrible faux paint wallpaper and they ruined a lovely fireplace by painting faux marble over real marble!!! The rooms are formal and European in feel. They are still unfinished in terms of décor and furniture. We are in the process of repainting our kitchen, family room and one of the downstairs bathrooms.

The downstairs bathroom will be painted Kittery (as in Maine) Green. It’s a Benjamin Moore. It will reflect our summers in Newport and Maine.

I want my kitchen to be a warm, comfortable place also with a European flair. I have some yellow Benjamin Moore paint swatches taped all over the walls! Our cabinets are oak (not my choice but they are high quality and we aren’t taking them down!) and the drapes and cushions are black and white ticking. Hopefully next year we will be able to replace the floor (to dark, wide plank hardwood – from ugly nasty dirty looking tile!) and counters (granite) and stove, a Jenn-Air which in its day (20 years ago) was the epitome of style and cuisine but now the burners are old, warped and chipped…

The family room has a very rustic feel. One wall is all stone with a massive fireplace built into it. The back of the house faces the woods and so it feels as though we are in Maine when we sit in this room. We have oversized, dark leather furniture in there and two dark, cherry wood armoires. I’m thinking Wedgewood by Benjamin Moore on the walls. I change my mind hourly. But I had better decide before the painter comes!

In terms of style and décor my two favorite rooms are the formal rooms, but the family room is a favorite because it is so comfortable and inviting…"



When you think of Preppy and the preppy blog world...what is your first memory or favorite/cherished item that will always be a part of that?

"When I think Preppy, of course I think Preppy Handbook. The one my parents tossed when they packed up the New York apartment while I was in college… the book they tossed without telling me while I was in college… Bitter? Me??? Y"


Look how cute she is with her Father in this picture!

xoxo

SC

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Feeling the preppy blog love!

I won an award! Three to be exact. And I am in no way shape or form kidding when I say how delighted I am. And I'm going to tell you why first so reading my "facts" will make it that much more interesting. I've been waiting with baited breath, I'm not joking, to get another award. With all of my preppy fun and book launches I've been busy. But what I've been really busy with is keeping a list of truly interesting "facts." When I first entered blog world and received these awards I would try to do my "facts" from the top of my head and they were SO BORING! I even didn't want to read my own blog award blog, it was THAT BORING. So I started keeping a list, in a journal, next to my computer of truly interesting things (as they came to my head I would run and write them down) cause I was like, no one--not even me is THIS BORING. So I'll do my list first and the award later because I'm SO EXCITED to share it!!!!!

1. I had brunch with and at Olympia Dukakis' house! details: my bf (at the time) grew up with her son. It was his birthday brunch. I saw her Oscar and she gave me a pie to bring home to my Mommie.

2. My photograph appeared on The Sartorialist! details: my gf and I had just had lunch at the 4C's in NYC and he stopped me for my picture and handed me his card. Now he has a book deal. I bet my picture won't be in the book-oh well.

3. I went to college with Nate Berkus. The designer on Oprah! details: we were a year apart and lived in the same dorm one year. We were friends...not great friends but we hung at the same parties. He was nice.

4. My bff, also from college, is royalty. details: I always ask her opinion because I know its ROYAL

5. Wife Swap, as in the show, wanted my family to be on. Husband said "NO!" And my parents agreed so I did not do it.

6. I sent in an audition tape for the 1st Apprentice. And although I was not selected they showed my tape on Access Hollywood and Donald Trump commented about my fire place (I sat in front of it during the audition tape). Donald Trump said, when asked what he thought of me, "She seems fine but I should have that fire place in my house!"

7. You know that book "Don't sweat the small stuff?" I LOVE worrying about what to wear, and all things small. If I actually worried about "big stuff," I would have a nervous breakdown. So I guess I am boring and shallow but maybe just maybe Nate Berkus will invite me to The Oprah show!

xoxo

SC

So I got 2 of the sugar doll awards & 1 kreativ blogger. Thank you to:

This post is already too long but again many many thanks and lots of love to you girls for making me feel LOVED!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Thrivin After Divorce Book Launch

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Over 50 % of American couples are divorced … we all know this!  We are either one of the statistics ourselves or we personally know many who are.  Yet there are such limited resources on how to recover and rebuild.  Consider these important subjects that need to be addressed:
*How to Stop the Depression
*How to Guide the Children Gracefully Through
*Factors Involved in Deciding If and When to Date
*How to Avoid Making the Same Bad Decisions
*And How to Set Up a New Marriage Not Only to Be Successful, but to Be Phenomenal.

Fortunately my colleague, Lisa J. Peck, who Women’s World touts as leading relationship expert, has teamed with Dr. Kevin Skinner to create a comprehensive course that covers it all.  In Lisa’s Thriving After Divorce package, all the essential subjects listed above, and many more equally sensible needs, are addressed with candor, humor, and helpful insight.  Using the information in this package could transform yours or a friend’s life, from a statistic to happy progress.

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As an  incentive to consider investing in her Thriving After Divorce package, Lisa has gathered together valuable bonus offerings from other leading experts such as:       Lynn Smith & Debbie Schroeder-Health Coach Team, Doris Helge, Ph.D.-More Joy, Beth Dunn- Social Climbers, Karen L. Keeney- Wealth Secrets, Heather Picken – The Spirit Trainer, Julia M. Lindsey – The Little Book of Abundance and more.

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PS I know you know lots of people who would love to get this information package and enjoy all the bonus gifts.  Why not share this message with them so they too, can begin Thriving After Divorce as soon as possible and receive many cool bonus gifts.

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Success,

SC

Monday, November 9, 2009

Preppy Sorority Winner!

Hello to all my blog friends! I have 500 wonderful preppy followers. Thank you so much. I'm beyond excited. Before I announce the winner you have to check out my fab Lilly Pulitzer Peacock pants! (Shoes are by Coach)

And the winner of my sorority give away is...Delta Zeta at Drexel University! Miss Sarah Lindsay please let me know the address and I will send copies of my novel, Social Climbers, to all your Sisters! Congratulations.

xoxo

SC

Friday, November 6, 2009

Preppy Friday!

Today is the last day to enter my sorority give away and I think I have a tie. So enter here and be sure to tweet and fb the giveaway to break the tie! Best of luck!

The past 2 weeks have been so fun! I love having guest bloggers and reading everyone's kind comments. Thank you. Today I'll wrap with QBS and her thoughts on my novel, Social Climbers. Which is how we met and how this blog began.  So I had to ask her: What do you think of Social Climbers, the book and the people?
 
"Beth specifically said that I should not endorse the book.  Which is completely what I am going to do.  I love how her personality, preferences and spirit shine though the pages- it’s ALMOST as good as what I imagine some chardonnay psychology (but make mine champagne) would be like with her in person; she’s dishing it out from the heart.  I LOVE that she lists various SC things- terminology, vacation locales, preferred clothing, names, habits and style icons (to name a few) at the end of most chapters.  The only thing that I do not love about this book is that I wasn’t the one that wrote it.  I sooooo want SC, the Movie to come to fruition.  Or a sequel or book of the same genre to be written by Beth.  And to become her assistant when she gets her really big break and her own television program/lifestyle/media company.  We could all use a little more style, charm and good taste in our lives and Beth has her finger firmly on the pulse of all things lovely, classy and Preppy."

Isn't she a doll baby! I just love QBS! Everyone have a preppy weekend. We'll be at fund raiser in Philadelphia. xoxo

SC


Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Wednesday's Preppy Guest Blogger

All you cutie college girls, to enter my giveaway click on preppy

I LOVE Entertaining Mom! She is so chic and kind. That is what I love about the blog world....I always wanted a pen pal as a young girl. Now I have all of you. We've become friends here and everywhere. She is so supportive, and ALWAYS makes me laugh! To read more: click here

So I had to have her as a preppy guest blogger because she has had a fascinating life! When I meet someone I admire I want to study them (I guess that is the Anthropologist in me) and find out EVERYTHING.

So I had to ask, Who embodies what you want to be when you grow up, style wise? or for any reason.

"My Grandmother (maternal side) embodies everything I want to be when I grow up. She was grace; she was elegance; she was style and she was class. And she was a warm person who cared about others. When she was in her late 30s/early 40s her husband passed away. Her children were grown and in college (Mom at Skidmore, uncle at Princeton before he got booted!!!) and she decided, just like that, that she was going to leave her little, comfortable society life and move to Paris to start all over again. This is extraordinary in any terms, but when you factor in the fact that a few years earlier she nearly lost her own life to Polio and was now in a wheelchair, paralyzed from the waist down, and she still managed to pack up and move across the Great Pond is truly inspirational. She bought herself a pied a terre in Paris on the Seine! She met a few wonderful (and famous) people there. One such person was Thornton Wilder, author of many fabulous stories and plays, including another favorite of mine, Our Town.

My grandmother was sitting at a café one day minding her own business when a handsome and very distinguished gentleman asked her, in terrible French, if she had a light for his cigarette. She replied, in English (!) that she didn’t. After small talk he introduced himself to her. Her jaw fell to the ground as she gasped. “I thought you were dead!” They shared a chuckle and many more over the years. My grandmother told Mr. Wilder that she had to quit smoking while she was in the Iron Lung. She would reward herself with one when her first grandchild was born. They remained lifelong friends. Shortly after I was born, there arrived in the mailbox a post card that read “Congratulations, La Jolie Grandmere!” She must have mentioned that cigarette… anyhow, while I knew nothing of Mr. Wilder, he knew of me!!! (After I was born she smoked one Gauloise ( extremely strong, unfiltered) cigarette daily.

It was in Paris that my grandmother would meet and marry an MGM movie executive and they would move to and settle in Cannes for many, many years."


OK! I officially want to be her too when I grow up. She is beyond! EM Thank you for sharing with us. XOXO

SC

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Happy Preppy Tuesday!

4 Days left to enter my Sorority Give away! click here to enter!

And to celebrate I have another Preppy Post from Guest Blogger Queen Bee Swain. (Don't worry I have another surprise guest blogger later this week). I connect with her spirit and style so much. You can check out her blog here

I'm dying to know how the Queen decorates:

"Carolyn Roehm meets Cape Cod.  Lots of blue and white with lovingly-worn family and antique pieces.  There is nothing quite as crisp inviting as blue and white paired with pieces that have personal history.  It’s put-together and relaxed all at once and has a dash of personal history."

Seriously from these pictures you can tell how much she loves to read and all the personal family heirloom touches! PS I recognize ALL of those pink book covers. I had to run and look up Carolyne Roehm when I saw her answer.



 QBS adds:
"The mirror above the green bookshelf is from Nanny's patio furniture, the jug is from my other grandmother and a couple of the loving cups are from family.

The hutch is totally me- kind of Cape Cod Shabby Chic- found it at a junk store just after I graduated for $150.  

MoMo just about died when I painted the end table next to my bed white- I am highly pro-Gustavian influences in decor (Gustavian is Scandinavian traditional- white painted wooded furniture with a paired-down Louis XIV style).  MoMo is very anti-painting wooded furniture."

That is what I love about decorating. You can mix old, new, expensive and plain old practical. Throw in your favorite family photos, books and you are Chic in my world. Thank you QBS!

Happy Preppy Day to everyone and wear some fab pants and call me if anyone gives you a dirty look!

xoxo

SC